Fringe Date Gone Right

[Pcfmhwbka]

I am new to the site and really enjoying all of the informative (and sexy) posts on this forum. While not in the lifestyle yet... I have hopes of getting there one day. Our background is really the biggest obstacle for us in making it. My wife, age 33, is a PK (pastor's kid), and we are very involved with our local church. I, age 34, am totally hooked on the thought of sharing my wife. She is a petite woman and absolutely gorgeous (I will share pictures if she give me permission). Beautiful breasts (32 D), nice ass, and very talented in the sack.

Anyway, a few years ago, we had our 4th child, and our sex life was practically nonexistent. Well, even before then, having so many kids in so many close years, we would go MONTHS without doing the deed. While our marriage was strong, our sex life was as vanilla jello as could be. I would get off regularly, and she would be hit or miss. There was nothing other than the same safe sex positions, and no oral or extracurricular events were happening. Eventually, I broached the topic with a conversation like "I'm bored; we are in a rut. Can we try something new?"

We downloaded a couples app called Intimately Us, and it was fireworks from the gate. The app had quizzes, and we began opening up about things we hadn't discussed before. Her not having given me a blowjob in 2 years turned into GOOOOD Bj's 2-3 times a week. She was learning new techniques, as was I, and we were fucking like we'd just discovered it for the first time. I mean, everything was and is still fantastic. She is an absolute smoke show, and I am always in AWE of her as a mother, partner, and lover. In fact, I've told her before, "It is just a shame that you are so fucking good at this, and no one will ever know. You should be holding seminars at church teaching women how to please their husbands (she regularly hears from the girls how tired they are and not in the mood to do the deed with their husbands and is slow to brag about the details of our fantastic sex)

So fast forward to a date we had recently. Last year, we started using an app called Faithful Fling. It essentially gives you role-playing scenarios, plans out dates, and gives your characters activities to plan, etc. etc. If nothing else, I thought this might satisfy my appetite for sharing her. This date actually was what the app calls a Fringe Date, where you participate in the date as yourself, but they give you new sexual tasks to try, with the intention being to push you to the fringe of your comfort zone. For this one, we booked a hotel room, and I knew she would have some sexy new lingerie and some surprises for me... I also had a list that included some surprises for her, but I also took the liberty of coming up with one myself. I got on blissful creations and ordered "The Hog C." I am only about 5-5.5 inches long and only about 4.5 inches in circumference. The Hog increased me to 7.25 inches long and 6.5 inches in girth... When I opened it out of the packaging, I started laughing... I thought, yeah, there is no fucking way this is gonna fit!

Well, the date night came, I had a great dinner and returned to the hotel; my wife looked gorgeous. I gave her a full body massage, and she put on some lingerie that flattered her and made her look like a fucking pin-up model and gave me a lap dance followed by a blowjob where she "deepthroated" (can't make it that deep) me for the first time, but it was sexy as fuck to see her go all the way down and then some on my cock. We stopped before I couldn't take any more. I then pulled out a basket with noise-canceling headphones and a blindfold and told her to lie back on the bed. She did so, and I told her, "Alright, I'm going to play some erotic audio; you are going to wear these headphones and blindfold. I'll cover you up with a bed sheet, but you are going to lay back, get comfortable, and do whatever makes you feel sexy. I'm going to open the curtains of the window and leave the room for a few minutes, and you won't know when I come back, and I hope that turns you on."

Her eyes got HUGE, and she started nervous-laughing and biting her bottom lip. So I got her all setup and pulled up a video on pornhub of a wife cheating on her husband (under the category 'porn for her'). In it, they said things like "This has to be the last time," etc., and then have passionate sex for 20-25 minutes. Well, while I started her off, I ran to the bathroom and pulled out my cock sleeve. I had to laugh again and then noticed my hands were shaking. I started running it under hot water to try and give it a little bit of warmth, as I knew a cold sleeve would be a dead giveaway that something was up. I slipped it on and felt great; I felt like a fucking titan with that thing swinging from my crotch. I opened the door of the bathroom quietly and walked out.

I could feel my heart beating in my ears. It was going so fast. I turned the corner to see her back arched, legs wide, her left hand gripping her left breast, and her right hand working in gentle circles on her pussy. I had to be smiling from ear to ear. FUCK, she looked so FUCKING HOT!

I walk up and get on the bed, and let her feel the cock against her thigh through the sheet. She gave a sexy "Oooo" and Immediately reached to grab it. (oh, Shit! not yet!) I grabbed her, placed it with her other hand, and held them over her head while we started kissing. I pull the sheet back and can see that she has made a wet spot on the bed. Damn! I thought to myself... could this be a sign?!

I start rubbing her legs, sucking on her breasts, kissing her neck... she then tries reaching to take the blindfold off... again I grab her hand and redirect it... I realize that I may only have 10-12 minutes left on the audio and decide to go for the big move. I get the head lubricated with some saliva, pull her down so she is in missionary, grab the head of my newly improved cock, and try sliding in... but it doesn't go... My heart breaks. So I start rubbing her pussy with the head trying to get it a little wetter, another slow and gentle thrust...

"Ooh.... ooooo!," she says, back and forth, in and out... the head breaks through, and IMMEDIATELY she takes a big breath in and says, "OHmyGoooOOOooD!" I lean in to kiss her, trying to keep her from taking off the blindfold. Slowly, I get in further and further, about a half inch at a time, until finally, after getting about 5 inches in, I pull out so only the head is in her and then slowly push the whole cock in until my little, bible-beating wife took all 7.25" of this monster cock (well monster for her!).

She immediately grabbed my shoulders, with a HUGE smile on her face, and said, "Baby... Babbyyyyy... don't stop," which... of course... made me cum. But I soldier on. Slow at first, but speeding up, I just start pounding her pussy like it was the last time I'd ever get to. I couldn't believe how gorgeous she looked and how fucking sexy it looked to see that dick going in and out of her pussy...I had NEVER seen her pussy grip a cock so tight. I couldn't stop smiling. It felt like an out-of-body experience seeing this gorgeous woman, scantily clad in the sexiest lingerie I had ever seen her in, taking this cock, I never thought I'd see in her pussy. Her legs were beginning to shake, and she was CREAMING on this cock... again, like, who is this woman? And what has she done with my wife?

I think she could tell I was getting tired (not used to the extra motion required by the sleeve), so she pushed me onto my back and climbed on top of me. She reached down and guided the cock into her pussy... her hand looked so small, gripping the shaft. She starts sitting back on the cock, moaning with her hands on my chest and arms tight against her body pressing her breasts together. Slowly the moans became shouts of pleasure, "Fuck!" "Oh Baby, give it to me," "You feel so big! You are so fucking deep!" etc... there was no way the rest of the hallway knew what was happening. At this point, she began kissing me and leaned down and twerking on my cock. I could feel her ass clapping off of my balls, and I felt like I was on the way to cumming again, so I wrapped my arms around her torso, pulled her in so her ass went up in the air, and just started relentlessly pounding her pussy. It was the first time I'd ever had enough length to pull this off successfully. She stopped breathing and just smiled with her mouth open. I could tell she was close, and I knew that her favorite way to cum was sitting up, leaning back, and gyrating her hips back and forth in cowgirl. So I let her assume the position; I reached up to her breast and started pinching her nipple while my other hand reached around to squeeze her ass; she was going back and forth like a fucking machine. I looked down, and the cock is GONE, buried the deepest she had ever felt a penis before. When the orgasm happened, I swear I could feel her clenching through the sleeve. She immediately fell onto me and started shivering. Her moans were unlike anything I had ever heard before. I just rubbed her back, covered her with the bed sheet, and kissed her. After about 2 minutes of her coming down, I finally took her headphones and blindfold off. She immediately kissed me and said, "That was absolutely the best orgasm I've ever had in my life." lol Yeah, I could tell!

After some chatting, I said, "Babe, can I show you something?" then I took the sheet off, rolled onto my back, and let the cock sleeve stand tall and proud.

She looked at it puzzled..."Uh... You look different?" she grabbed it and squeezed and shook it back and forth, "I don't understand???"

I took it off, and she started dying of laughter, and so did I. She was shocked but said, "Damn... yeah, I like that!"

I asked her if I should throw it out, and she said, "Well... I don't think I want it every day... but it is worth keeping around for date night!"

So I haven't confessed to the idea of hotwife with her... dropped hints... I think I'm more in line with a stag/vixen situation... I couldn't help but be extremely turned on by how the night ended. I am keeping my fingers crossed that this could grow into a rather fun past time and possibly an introduction to the lifestyle!

[Hawks6364]

Fantastic story

[mundyman]

What an amazing start. You can have a lot of fun even before you might see her with another person.
Please keep sharing your adventures!!!

[Pcfmhwbka]

Thanks guys! I will definitely share out next outing. We have one planned for about two weeks from now (if baby sitters don’t fall through)

[mrpcfmhwba]

UPDATE:

This is PCFMHWBKA reincarnated as MR.pcfmhwba... I couldn't delete my first account, so I just made it so I couldn't have access to it (I felt like I was visiting way too often). A few days after our hot date, I didn't feel that this fantasy was really going to really happen (too good to be true). In short, about a week after that first night, I dropped a hint that I may want a little more. (I asked her who her hall pass would be if I could give her one to use) She essentially said, no one, I want you, etc. Well, back with an update that suggests I should hang around...

Fast forward to our date this past Friday... I'm still processing it. I told myself the first experience was a fluke. I just did the proper foreplay to get her there. But I think this past weekend has thrown me for a loop!

So we dropped the kids off with their grandparents, went out to dinner, and headed up to our hotel room. Had a great view of the city. The wall of the exterior was almost entirely glass, which was pretty cool, and pretty hot for the exhibitionist side of me that loves fucking in front of an open window (She likes it too). Standard repertoire followed- Showers, I give her a full body massage, we talk and talk, and I let her know that I bought a new sex toy for the evening. (Since we've been married, she's only ever owned one tiny little Amazon vibrator, which has disappeared since. And recently, I purchased the cocksleeve that sent me down this rabbit hole.) She told me she was curious about what it was and pretty much played 20 questions while I worked on her body.

I finally went to my bag and pulled it out, and showed her a Dildo that was slightly girthier than my cock sleeve but not much longer. She laughed when she saw it and said, "Hahaha! Wow! That's big!" I handed it to her, and she immediately gripped it tight, brought it up to her mouth, and kissed it. That sent a shiver down my spine... she held it down and looked gazingly at it... I wasn't sure if she was sizing it up, lusting over it, or worried about its size. She was quiet for a few seconds and then glanced to look at me and said, "I think I might like this babe..."

"Really??" I said, "I was worried I'd be making you uncomfortable... I just want you to have fun, and I thought since our last date we could keep experimenting."

She then held its scrotum in her left hand, right hand on the shaft, and put it in her mouth, and gave it a quick teasing blowjob. She then says, "Haha, this is crazy! I feel like there is another man in here!" Holy Shit... I assume I looked like an acme cartoon with my jaw on the floor at this point.

So she puts it down and learns about the superhuman strength of the suction cup on its bottom. We laugh over how strong it is. She then walks out in her towel and goes to the bathroom to get into her lingerie, and I hop on the bed, waiting for my beautiful wife to present herself to me in all her glory.

She comes out looking smoking hot, just a fucking sex goddess; I was just so turned on. She put her hair up in an updo (she knows this is a turn-on for me). She is Just a perfect and wonderful woman. She joins me on the bed, and we start making out. I hand her the dildo, and she smiles big. I tell her I want you to play with this while I play with you. She giggles, does her fucking sexy little lip bite, and then I start devouring her. Slowly, but progressively more passionate. I reach down with my hand and can feel she is just rubbing the massive head against her clit. I can feel that it's getting wetter, but there's no penetration. I take off my underwear and shirt and get on top of her, and she says, "I want you in me, babe." I tell her nope... she's going to have to wait... we are going to make this evening last. I take the member from her and tell her, let me have some fun with you. I go down on her and start eating her out; she's already wet but tastes divine. This lasts about 5 minutes before I mount her in missionary like I'm about to take her; she is moving with pleasure and anticipation... that's when I take the dildo and start slowly penetrating her tight pussy. The pleasure was like an aura around her body. That thing was like electricity for her. It takes a minute, but I get the whole gentleman into her, and she is just moaning with absolute ecstasy. While I'm slowly penetrating her with him, I am free to ravage her body... this only takes things to a whole new level. She tells me to stop, and she's going to come! But I can't stop myself from the thought of her cumming on a cock (even though a fake one at that)... so I keep moving and increase the speed and depth until I am pounding her pussy with splashy slaps and her screams, filling the hallways of the hotel. She has a screaming orgasm, and I feel like I'm about to myself. We take a beat to calm down. But then my turn comes along. She grabs the other man in the room and sticks him to the wall... well, headboard in the hotel. She goes down on me; I look up and see this huge cock just hanging over my head.

This is awkward, babe... she looks up and laughs, "Maybe I should give it a reason to be there. She has me sit up with my back against the headboard; she moves it so that it is at her eye level as she takes me into her pussy. I now have a front-row view of my wife sucking this fat cock while Griding on my hard dick. I'm sucking on her breasts but fighting the urge to come. And I can't believe what I'm seeing; if this was a real man receiving her head, I don't know how he could have lasted more than 2 minutes. For the first time in my life, I saw her deep throat in the third person (well, idk 3rd person, but I was watching her suck, not my dick, and it was like a porno staring at my wife). I could see the dildo moving in and out of her throat; she was making a gagging sound, jerking it off... it was just... I couldn't believe what I was seeing. For the first time that I could remember, her pussy juice was dripping off of my balls. She made a suction cup pop off the tip of the cock and said, Babe... I want a real dick in my mouth.

"Suck my fucking cock then" I grabbed her head and led her directly to my dick, and she took it.

"Baaaabe! Slow down. I'm going to cum, and I want this to last a little longer" She laughs and slows a bit, then says, "I want you to fuck me with it."

"What??"

"Fuck me with that cock, I want to cum again, and I want to taste you" I wasn't sure if she meant she wanted me in her mouth while she came or if she wanted me to cum in her mouth (in all the years and years and years we've been fucking.. since her freshman year of college, I've never cum in her mouth or on her face.)

I grab him off the wall and start fucking her pussy with him; I turn him around so I can see his balls pounding her clit. Her blowjob just gets crazier and crazier. I can't take my eyes off of her pussy. She's lying on my side with her head on my cock, legs by my left side. I just see this massive cock destroying her pussy and can vividly imagine a man behind her spooning her and doing the work. I lasted as long as I could, but I heard her start to cum, which of course, triggered me... I tell her FUCK, I'm cumming, babe; I courteously put my hand on her forehead to push her off my cock; she grabs my right wrist with her left hand to stop me and finishes me off, mouth open, tongue out. I feel like my cock turned into a fountain of cum. I literally got dizzy. She let the cum drip off of her tongue and onto my cock (no swallowing), but the smile she had while my cum was dripping off her face, lips, chin, and hand... was perfection.

She started laughing in disbelief. I noticed the cock was still in her, I took it out, and she's like, "Woah! I feel like you just sucked the life out of me," and I said, "Uh, you just sucked the life out of me" I tell her I can't believe I just came in her mouth, she says, "yeah, probably the most you've ever cum and of course that happens on my first time trying it!"

We laugh, love, talk, and cuddle, but I am in such disbelief that I don't know where to go with the topic on my mind.

So that's where I am now... What's the next step??? Am I misreading bedroom play as a foreshadowing of her secret desires? What is the first question I ask... do I tell her why I thought it was so hot to see her sucking on another man's dick? I want her to know that I. LOVE. HER. and do not want her to be in a different relationship or in love with anyone else... I don't want to be cuckolded, and I don't want to fuck other women... I just get off... like OOOOFFFFFFF... to seeing her be pleased and in complete pleasure. I'm just afraid if I tell her how I'm feeling, she will be disgusted with me and feel like I tricked her into my fantasy—I don't know where to go from here. I feel like I'm at a crossroads. Maybe I'm just letting a fantasy get in the way of what is already fantastic.

[hornedhubby]

Great story. Great wife. She is into it.

Just love her, pamper her and listen to her as best you can.

I think you've made outstanding recent progress.

The transition to HW play in real life is a challenge. I've tried for 40 plus years without getting her to go down the slide. But, in the meantime, lots of fantasy and fun.

Best luck and thanks for sharing,

[mrpcfmhwba]

She is indeed great. Definitely love her being into it and wouldn't want to push her any direction too fast. Or take for granted how much fun this stage is.

[BallSpanking]

Perhaps an MFM threesome fantasy would be a way to introduce the idea of a real alternative cock. To be honest, the idea is already there, I assure you, but the utterance of it, the openness and acceptance of that possibility, the loving altruistic nature of that gift of freedom, could be the catalyst.

Initial qualms might be in place, but fantasies are not reality, and that could go a long way in mollifying her reluctance, but successful repetition of these fantasies eventually make the idea seem acceptable and normal, especially where there is encouragement and eagerness from you in promoting her sexual realization.

Design a fantasy scenario that contains her favorite turn-ons and 'kinks', so to increase her libido and acceptance. You could follow up with a sexy boudoir photography session, where the photographer (you) is another man, muscular and well hung, and ends with him ravaging her and turning her into a HotWife.

These are all baby steps that lead down the path the two of you are already taking, but little by little open the door to her acceptance of her sexuality and sharing herself with other men. Use her own words and desires to move the fantasy forward, when she mentioned 'another man', let her know that would be off the charts for you, something you would definitely allow her to experiment. Soon the notion of her being with a well hung lover will become normalized and part of your pillow talk. Perhaps you can encourage her to fill in the blanks and craft her own version of a wild, sexy tryst.

She sounds delightful and beautiful. And the sexy photos you take could go into a private stash of her sexy HW persona, and would be very useful for the day when you make her an account on Ashley Madison or AFF. Be ready for them to blow her mind and rev up her trajectory to HotWifing, because she will be deluged with responses. These will serve to drive home the fact that she is sexy and desirable to many other men, and there is nothing in the way from keeping her from enjoying them as a sexy married siren.

A word of caution, AFF accounts can result in an avalanche of cock pics and rude comments that can become a turn-off, so be ready to step in and curate the content so she gets to read only the sexier, more qualified candidates. Encourage her to engage in text conversations with them on her own, which will make her all the more comfortable with her newfound sexuality and self confidence.

Also, you may want to consider a new sexier wardrobe for her, nothing slutty that will cause a disruption in her church circles, but dual use garments that can be worn in a way that is revealing or sultry if she feels like it ...
Keep us posted please, and good luck!

[athlete915]

So that's where I am now... What's the next step??? Am I misreading bedroom play as a foreshadowing of her secret desires? What is the first question I ask... do I tell her why I thought it was so hot to see her sucking on another man's dick? I want her to know that I. LOVE. HER. and do not want her to be in a different relationship or in love with anyone else... I don't want to be cuckolded, and I don't want to fuck other women... I just get off... like OOOOFFFFFFF... to seeing her be pleased and in complete pleasure. I'm just afraid if I tell her how I'm feeling, she will be disgusted with me and feel like I tricked her into my fantasy—I don't know where to go from here. I feel like I'm at a crossroads. Maybe I'm just letting a fantasy get in the way of what is already fantastic.

First off, thank you for sharing your experiences. It's not only hot material, to begin with, but you're also a great storyteller. Both posts were very exciting to read.

Second, it is abundantly clear that you adore your wife, and you two have a great marriage. A while ago, I wrote a thread about what I look for in couples. At the top of the list was that they have a happy and healthy marriage to start with. The lifestyle won't fix broken relationships but can enhance good ones (if that makes sense).

Next, I'll address your questions in a bit, but I wanted to offer a separate piece of advice first. Take advantage of this time to really figure out what you want. That way, if and when you and your wife ever start to discuss things, you have a good idea upfront of what you want. And yes, it's obvious you love the idea of her being pleased by a well-hung man; there are a ton of other things to consider. I can offer you a more exhaustive list separately, but here are some initial areas. What attributes (physical, personality, experience) would you want in her partner? Are you looking for a one night stand or something ongoing? Would you want to watch? If so, could she only play if you watched? Finally, you can think in terms of must haves, nice to haves, and red lines.

Again, the goal is to have a good idea of what you want before you're ever in a position to discuss it with her. While you shouldn't be surprised if these things change and evolve with time, they at least give you baseline for your conversation.

(Avoid getting overly wrapped around the different lifestyle terms (e.g., cuck, stag, etc.). Those can be confusing and overly restrictive. Just think about what you like and don't like, and don't worry about the labels).

Okay, finally, onto your actual questions. Of course, there are no simple and foolproof answers. Similarly, there's no one-size-fits-all approach. What may have worked perfectly for one of my previous couples may not work for you two. With those caveats out of the way, my first piece of advice is to be patient and take your time. There's no medal for first place. The reward is having a happy, healthy, and exciting experience.

I recommend that you continue to personalize her toys. You want them to be something that is more than an inanimate object or tied to you. That will help foster the idea of there being a third partner.

(This may seem funny, but based on what you wrote about her, I would suggest giving the toys one combined persona. Your wife doesn't sound like the type who will get excited by the idea of having multiple partners. She's a quality versus quantity type.)

Finally, you can reinforce how excited you are by her pleasure by encouraging her to use the dildo when you aren't around. Even if your ultimate desire is to watch, your encouragement and her practice will drive home the emphasis and focus on her pleasure. Be encouraging and show her how much it excites you, but remember not to be pushy about it (it can be a fine line).

Best of luck, and I am happy to discuss things further!

[mrpcfmhwba]

I really enjoy reading the responses!

I have so many more questions, one of which is that right now, I store her naughty pictures in a hidden folder on my phone, but I wonder if there is a safer way. I want to keep a pretty good collection in case I get permission to share them here one day.

Can you join AFF or AshleyMadison anonymously (I'm worried the algorithms would try pairing us with someone nearby)... but really, we are a few miles away from that point in time... I think.

I definitely think we have a lot of fun time left role-playing and fantasizing. We are planning a big trip towards the end of this year or possibly early next that will be away from home... can't help but let my mind enjoy the possibilities there.

But all of your comments had my smiling and appreciative of the time you took to respond! Right now I'm just trying to figure out how to bring this up with her as I don't think I want to share on here for too long without her knowledge and involvement (I don't like to nor do I try to hide things from her, but I also don't feel comfortable sharing these details... secrets... with anyone who could spill the beans in our personal lives while I'm still trying to figure this all out).

Also at what point should I take this conversation behind the login wall? I saw several thousand views on this, and that's fine, but I also am looking for advice and support... not really to just help people get their jolly rocks off as anons on the internet!

[athlete915]

I really enjoy reading the responses!

That's great. Your experiences here should be positive. If nothing else, it should confirm that you are not alone in your desires. Second, hopefully, you will find some helpful advice, which will help you further explore your fantasies and maybe even make them a reality.

As long as you have a reasonably modern cell phone with up-to-date software, your phone is a pretty secure place to store the pictures. You may just want to add a password or other means of authentication to the photo album.

Yes, both AFF and AM allow you to set up anonymous accounts.

Again, it is obvious you love and adore your wife, so understandably, you don't want to hide this from her. That said, you're also trying to figure things out for yourself, so give yourself a little grace. You're not lying to her; you're just trying to figure out how and when to open up more to her.

My near-term recommendation is to continue to focus on your role-playing and fantasizing. It's new, so it's okay to just explore it for now. That said, you should continue to emphasize the point of the toys with an "other" and more than just inanimate objects. That's a great way to build on the idea of a "third."

When you feel ready, and the timing is right, I would recommend taking the conversation out of the bedroom. You want her to understand that it is more than just a fantasy and something that gets you off. Maybe go out to dinner, and when you catch a guy checking her out, point it out to her. Tell her that she's a beautiful woman and you enjoy the attention she gets from others. You can mention the toys and ask if she has ever wondered what being with a well-endowed man would be like. If you're up for it, you could admit that you find that idea to be hot.

That's just one scenario, but anything that gets the conversation out of the bedroom and into the "real" world would be a step in admitting that this is more than a fantasy for you.

As long as your posts are out in the open, I would continue to avoid sharing any detail that could allow someone to identify you. Use the open conversations to share your general thoughts and hopefully connect with others. You can then take the conversations private and open up more.