saw a cuckold in the wild

[mfm4bnc]

Went out to a live music show the other day with my wife. There was a baby boomer guy in a perfectly ironed light blue sport coat and a 1980s salesman no-hair-out-of-place hairstyle. He was there with his very pretty slender 55ish Filipina wife. The guy was about 5'6" and the woman was about 5'2". After husband and wife danced a few dances, the husband guided this 20-something kid, who was gawkish, but about 6'4", over to his wife. Through the night, the two men kept handing off the wife to each other with dramatic gestures (such as the twin pistol hand gesture). The husband also kept taking pictures of his wife dancing with the tall guy. The tall guy wasn't especially discrete (read so loud I could hear him over the band from 15 feet away), and he kept on talking about the wife's "juicy ass" and so forth. The three left together before the end of the show, and both the guys had hands all over the woman.

I had a real mixed reaction... on one hand, it was fun to see a real-life cuckolding (or stag-vixen) in a vanilla atmosphere, but part of me was a little embarrassed, both for them and for the fact that I share their kink.

Have you seen hotwives in the wild? How did you react?

[Bullbe]

Very interesting post - I had an experience like this last summer. I was out with a talk attractive friend of mine. We went to this one bar and this women in her fifties would not leave him alone. Saying things like you can do what ever you want and my husband is over there and he doesn’t mind. My friend- who has no clue about my own kink - thought this was the most bizarre and off putting thing ever.

I was a little bothered in the same way you were - is this what I am? But quickly realised that people be people and they thankfully have multiple different ways of negotiating the world. It has made me completely rule out that cold approach scenaRio

[hubudig2]

I feel like I have a sixth sense for spotting [potential] cuckold couples.
I'll see a couple in public and subconsciously pick up on all the little signs (body language, presentation, that kind of thing).
If I'm convinced enough, I might test it by checking her out or interact with her in a way that he'll notice and see how he reacts.
He'll usually break eye contact when I look at him and give off this hard to describe submissive/defeated/blank body language that feels like a green light to proceed if I wanted to try to seduce her.
This process might happen within a couple of seconds and is mostly subconscious on all our parts but I find it really hot for that very reason.
I assume it's hot for him too? Anyone experienced this?

[Mumfred]

This is an interesting post. I can’t say I’ve ever seen anyone hotwifing in public.

My wife and I have had very few experiences but I wonder were we found out when we were in public.

[mfm4bnc]

I wonder if I am ever that obvious. I have never caught anyone reacting, but perhaps it was just because they were not interested?

[bbarnsworth]

I've never knowingly seen a cuck or hotwife in the wild. I did come close though...

My wife and I were leaving a restaurant, and parked near the entrance was a truck that had backed into the spot. On the back window of the cab, on the right hand side, was the silhouette of a woman along with the words "I love my hotwife!" I pointed it out to my wife, and we both smiled. I wanted to go back in and find them, but how do you do that? "Attention everyone! Who owns the black truck with the 'I Love My Hotwife' bumper sticker on it?"

[Mumfred]

"One the back window of the cab, on the right hand side, was the silhouette of a woman along with the words "I love my hotwife!"

That is putting it out there.

[Bsod83]

I have seen two different guys fool around on the beach with the same girl, a little handsy and lots of hugs and kisses, but not at the same time. But within the hour. They were a part of the same friend group. Everyone was about 30-35 yr old. This was during the summer of 2024.

A couple of weeks ago i was at a club. One of the girls there came with a tattoed 1% biker type guy. They were very friendly, clearly a couple. He had beard. And was rather mean looking.

I was more than a little suprised when I saw the same Lady making out with another biker type guy, also rather mean looking typical alpha dude a few hours later.

So not so much hotwife in the wild, but a little more stag/poly thing going i guess. Hot anyway.

My wife was with me both times. She did not spot any of this. I guess that it takes some observation to register if it is not super obvious.

[Greg_N_Shelley]

I’m pretty sure I met a couple in the wild while I was in London for a conference some time ago. I was with a group of colleagues having drinks in the hotel lounge and started conversation with a local couple while standing near the bar (both probably in their late 50’s). While we were talking, the wife was very flirty and started rubbing my arms openly in front of her husband. I was in my late 40’s and very much into bodybuilding at the time. The husband and I just carried on in conversation, both of us smiling as if we were sharing an unspoken understanding of what was going on.

I was curious to see where it would go, but being in a room full of business contacts wasn’t the right time and place.

[bradisalpha]

I’m pretty sure I met a couple in the wild while I was in London for a conference some time ago. I was with a group of colleagues having drinks in the hotel lounge and started conversation with a local couple while standing near the bar (both probably in their late 50’s). While we were talking, the wife was very flirty and started rubbing my arms openly in front of her husband. I was in my late 40’s and very much into bodybuilding at the time. The husband and I just carried on in conversation, both of us smiling as if we were sharing an unspoken understanding of what was going on.

I was curious to see where it would go, but being in a room full of business contacts wasn’t the right time and place.

Shame.. it would have gone somewhere !! Businessmen hotel lounges at conventions are a favorite place for hot wife/cuckold couples to go while “hunting” !!

They can choose from a smorgasbord of men away from home, horny, with hotel rooms !!!

Just saying…

Brad

[bradisalpha]

I feel like I have a sixth sense for spotting [potential] cuckold couples.
I'll see a couple in public and subconsciously pick up on all the little signs (body language, presentation, that kind of thing).
If I'm convinced enough, I might test it by checking her out or interact with her in a way that he'll notice and see how he reacts.
He'll usually break eye contact when I look at him and give off this hard to describe submissive/defeated/blank body language that feels like a green light to proceed if I wanted to try to seduce her.
This process might happen within a couple of seconds and is mostly subconscious on all our parts but I find it really hot for that very reason.
I assume it's hot for him too? Anyone experienced this?

Your sixth sense is correct !! Her dress, body language, bubbly demeanor, eyes roaming as if she is scoping out something. Easy to walk up to and start a conversation with.. laughs easily.. husband looking down or blank, sometimes smiling, sometimes excusing himself to go to the restroom.. all signs you are free to seduce her.

If you watch for those signs and begin a lighthearted conversation with her, you will be surprised at how many are “primed and ready to go” !!

From my experience…

Brad

[Colliercuck]

I feel like I have a sixth sense for spotting [potential] cuckold couples.
I'll see a couple in public and subconsciously pick up on all the little signs (body language, presentation, that kind of thing).
If I'm convinced enough, I might test it by checking her out or interact with her in a way that he'll notice and see how he reacts.
He'll usually break eye contact when I look at him and give off this hard to describe submissive/defeated/blank body language that feels like a green light to proceed if I wanted to try to seduce her.
This process might happen within a couple of seconds and is mostly subconscious on all our parts but I find it really hot for that very reason.
I assume it's hot for him too? Anyone experienced this?

Your sixth sense is correct !! Her dress, body language, bubbly demeanor, eyes roaming as if she is scoping out something. Easy to walk up to and start a conversation with.. laughs easily.. husband looking down or blank, sometimes smiling, sometimes excusing himself to go to the restroom.. all signs you are free to seduce her.

If you watch for those signs and begin a lighthearted conversation with her, you will be surprised at how many are “primed and ready to go” !!

From my experience…

Brad

I’m believe you are correct with the sixth sense, some men can just sense a beta situation.
I’ve been a cuckold wannabe for over 20 years (my wife had an 8 month affair several years ago, so technically was a cuckold). And he met her at an antique farmers market type event, and seduced her.
But, we were at a function of my wife’s work and ended up with all of her coworkers and friends at blue martini (a local high end bar).
We were sitting with my wife’s friend and her husband, when a gentleman just walked right up to my wife’s friend and started talking to her, during their conversation (which went on for a good 30 minutes) she turned towards him and was completely focused on him.
He did place his hand on her waist early on, and she leaned into him during the conversation, she giggled with him, and I noticed his and on her thigh as they continued talking.
Her friend noticed and said something to me, when I explained I was okay with my wife being hit on, the friend whispered to her husband, and they both laughed while looking at me.

[Greg_N_Shelley]

Shame.. it would have gone somewhere !!...

Probably, but I’m not 100% sure. Some extroverted women are naturally vivacious and touchy, and she seemed a little buzzed. That may have been the case here. But it certainly felt like there was something going on and he was onboard regardless.

I also had a related experience with a Dutch couple I met while working in Brussels a few years before that. I met them and another couple (friends of theirs) while sitting on a patio outside a bar on a quiet Sunday afternoon. However, in that situation, I don’t think the woman was a ‘hotwife’ per se, but rather a very hot girlfriend (superhot, actually!) who was very touchy and started leaning against me while as we were all talking.

Nothing became of it at the time, but we all became LinkedIn pals afterward. And when she broke up with the guy a year later, her flirtation turned into direct overture.

Unfortunately, Shelley was more than a tad jealous of that situation.