Wife shocks me with BBC...Ch.2.Admits to more

[BBCfan]

Great story

Interesting about when you used a sheath. I had similar result with my wife except the one I got wasn’t black. On a few occasions she went wild. Now doesn’t like it. I wonder if her going wild scared her a bit?

Thanks!

I agree with your assumptions from my experience as well. She really seemed to "come alive" when that huge "cock" filled her in some great places few can reach.

I think she became uncomfortable showing that side to me because it was a bit too obvious of the difference in reaction compared to her natural reaction from my cock. She was either wanting to spare my ego or not encourage my cuckold desires more, or a bit of both.

I have a birthday coming up, I may choose to use the sheath again as "special" gift for me to see her reaction again. Was VERY hot.

So in hot talk last weekend with wife, I explained that I know I over did it when first delving into the cuckold desire with her horse hung FWB Jeffrey, but I still needed a bit of spice and was trying to find some common ground...

I brought up the sheath and said how fun it was for me and seeing her take it with apparent glee was awesome.

Why is she so hesitant? She finally admitted she was worried she would get used to it if I used it on her regularly, and then I wouldn't be enough and she'd crave more size than I can provide. She enjoys my cock very much but and doesn't want it to feel like not enough.

Very honest and thoughtful...and it does basically confirm my suspicions...She is a size queen but wants to make it work with me and if she began thinking about bigger cocks than I can provide, it likely is unsettling against her desire for monogamy with me.

She said once in awhile is ok, so that is something to look forward to.

[OOAA]

Amazing story!!!!! A bit down when I realised it was just a play.....

...please..., go on... with real action form her side

[BBCfan]

Amazing story!!!!! A bit down when I realised it was just a play.....

...please..., go on... with real action form her side

HAHA...Thanks for the positive feedback...I think most readers were VERY disappointed with the ending. I considered going into fiction mode at end when I came home but wanted to stick to the truth.

I still may write a story where he is there when I arrive home...would be fun to consider how it would continue then.

I would like to go on but don't foresee any real action from wife. She is VERY clear it is not interesting to her at all. I get it, she was in a non committal slut phase for maybe 10 years before we started dating and had her fun. She wanted a monogamous relationship once she felt ready and so I respect that.

As we've only been married a few years, I could see her missing her free wheeling times eventually.

[PaNic]

Glad you did tell us the whole story and it is still a great one! I guess most of us read these both for the vicarious excitement as well as for ideas about how to manage our own fantasies and relationships better.

My own girlfriend is similar in not feeling interested in “real action” hotwifing so far. Well done for your respecting that in her, nothing wrong in dreaming that that might change in the future though and enjoying anticipating excitements to come. There are plenty of possibilities for that to change: her taking time getting used to the idea that her partner really would enjoy slutty side and that this could enhance rather than damage her primary relationship; changes in her desire to be sexually adventurous; an unexpected opportunity with someone at an opportune moment etc.

Who knows what the future holds for our lover’s pussies and in the horny corners of their minds, isn’t that part of the excitement? ;-)

[BBCfan]

Glad you did tell us the whole story and it is still a great one! I guess most of us read these both for the vicarious excitement as well as for ideas about how to manage our own fantasies and relationships better.

My own girlfriend is similar in not feeling interested in “real action” hotwifing so far. Well done for your respecting that in her, nothing wrong in dreaming that that might change in the future though and enjoying anticipating excitements to come. There are plenty of possibilities for that to change: her taking time getting used to the idea that her partner really would enjoy slutty side and that this could enhance rather than damage her primary relationship; changes in her desire to be sexually adventurous; an unexpected opportunity with someone at an opportune moment etc.

Who knows what the future holds for our lover’s pussies and in the horny corners of their minds, isn’t that part of the excitement? ;-)

Indeed it is sir! Thank you for the kind words and reminder of how blessed we are regardless of where things go...

[BBCfan]

As it makes more sense to keep my wannabe journey with wife in one place, instead of starting new posts...

Interesting unfolding yesterday in my wannabe adventures.

I had hung out with an old friend on weekend and I was relating to wife how he had struck up a friendship with the lady that delivered his groceries and now they had a FWB thing going, where most weeks he would get groceries and pussy.

He related how for various reasons, it was a perfect fit for both of them to keep it their little secret.

She instantly kinda lit up and said she loved those arrangements when she had them.

I was kinda shocked at her quick comment. She noticed and quickly said, "not now, when I was single and didn't have band width for a relationship. Was fun to get good dick with no strings."

She then asked if I was wanting to accompany her on some errands. I asked where she was going and she wouldn't tell me. When I pushed she said she going to deliver some groceries. I replied...ok, have fun, just please share some pics or vids!

She countered, "you wouldn't wanna see these pics!" I figured she was suggesting she might visit the ex I was most threatened by, and careful what I wish for."

When I got upstairs as she left, her teasing words and my thoughts made my cock so hard and throbbing it almost hurt. I jerked off twice before she came home just to quell my cuck excitement from her teasing. I was surprised I was SO aroused from her quick comments, even when I knew she was fucking with me.

We haven't been connecting physically very often, and in the evening I was horny once more so I tossed out my 3rd load of the day, not wanting to bother her, as I knew she had an early morning.

Of course, not long after she asked if we could have some fun tonight. I didn't want to admit her teasing had caused me to go into cuckold wanking overdrive, so I agreed it sounded like a plan.

I delayed getting to bed, in hopes my libido might recover somehow. It's rare I go past 3 EVER in a day, plus I'm late 50's.

Well, she then suggested I didn't really want to have sex, as why else was I delaying. I then had to admit her teasing had caused me to jerk off repeatedly, it had little to do with desire and more to do with libido being drained. She was a bit surprised but seemed amused as well.

She then started stroking my cock and said " you really are a cuckold, aren't you? You say you don't need it but it's obvious that's not the case. You shouldn't deny it."

I told her I can't deny how much it excites me. I can't explain it either. I'm just as surprised and confused as she must be... but I also understand fantasy and reality sometimes shouldn't be combined...

I explained how I think knowing she has expressed she is not interested at all makes the fantasy somehow safer for me to delve into. If I thought she REALLY wanted to, it might be way more threatening and less appealing than the safety of knowing it won't go beyond fantasy.

I was now fully hard as she stroked me, and she teased me a bit about being a cuckold. Did I want her to tie me up while she fucked someone in front of me and told me how much more he filled her pussy?

I said I didn't think I was that kind of cuckold but was also throbbing hard and slid into her sopping wet pussy easily. I slowly pumped for a few minutes and then asked if she wanted to ride in her "O" position. She immediately assummed position and was instantly moaning and seemingly on the edge of orgasm...

She rode me and tried to last then erupted in the MOST intense orgasm I've ever witnessed from her. At least twice as powerful as I'd ever seen from her.
She then admitted after post orgasm bliss rest, that it was one of it not her most intense orgasm ever. It had been a bit since we had been intimate so she's hadn't had an O in a bit with me...

but I can't help connecting the dots that her intense orgasm was from thinking of fucking another guy and how much I was aroused by the thought or some combination of that?

I imagine she must be connecting the dots too? Any thoughts?

[elina]

Seems to me you are making progress as a couple;
Both you and your Wife opening up and admitting both of you evidently finds this hot.

In particular your Wife admitting to enjoying "getting good free dick" (or words to that effect) in FWB arrangements when She had not attached any strings and you now admitting to getting so turned on you could not help but wank after Her comments.

Don't push tooo hard, just keep sharing with Her and being more and more honest with her.
If you really want this to happen you must get your Wife to feel that She can do this without any fear that this will negatively impact Her marriage....

Good luck
sincerely
elina

[subtoall]

I think she'll be delivering groceries in no time.

[BBCfan]

Seems to me you are making progress as a couple;
Both you and your Wife opening up and admitting both of you evidently finds this hot.

In particular your Wife admitting to enjoying "getting good free dick" (or words to that effect) in FWB arrangements when She had not attached any strings and you now admitting to getting so turned on you could not help but wank after Her comments.

Don't push tooo hard, just keep sharing with Her and being more and more honest with her.
If you really want this to happen you must get your Wife to feel that She can do this without any fear that this will negatively impact Her marriage....

Good luck
sincerely
elina

I will take it slow and maybe not push at all more than the odd joking comment about her delivering groceries when she goes out. Not sure how bad I'd really want it to happen anyway, just the thought of it is ridiculously exciting for now.

I'm more curious in the near term if she initiates role play talk about it in some way, or even just has secret thoughts going forward to try and replicate the intense orgasm she experienced. Of course the latter I'd never know if that was the case. I sensed she was very shocked by the intensity of her orgasm.

I pushed too much before, so with this event I'll really try to let her guide things more if possible.

Thanks for your advice and support elina.

[BBCfan]

I think she'll be delivering groceries in no time.

Your optimism is likely wishful thinking but one NEVER knows.
I think she's still VERY far away from REALLY opening that door.

Even if my thoughts are correct and her super orgasm was from thinking about it, and it does spark a new excitement that surprises her. It still likely would be years before she becomes comfortable enough, and more curious to explore.

[2inUPMichigan]

My thoughts are that the following paragraph is what made the difference:

I explained how I think knowing she has expressed she is not interested at all makes the fantasy somehow safer for me to delve into. If I thought she REALLY wanted to, it might be way more threatening and less appealing than the safety of knowing it won't go beyond fantasy.

By telling her it was safe because it wasn't going beyond fantasy she could give herself "permission" to immerse herself in the fantasy.

She made it safe for you and you in turn made it safe for her. What does that get you? Some really hot bedroom role play!

But you said that knowing she wasn't interested made it safe for you. Now knowing that you would be okay keeping it in the bedroom could be what made it safe for her to role play. That also means she thinks you DON'T want to make this a reality.

Exploring a fantasy between the two of you can be but asking to explore it in real life....not so much for a lot of people.

You might need to backtrack and tell her how hot that night was and that you are up for talking about how the two of you could explore this in real life together whenever she is interested or ready. And if the answer is still no that is fine with you but you are looking forward to more nights like that in the future!

[BBCfan]

My thoughts are that the following paragraph is what made the difference:

I explained how I think knowing she has expressed she is not interested at all makes the fantasy somehow safer for me to delve into. If I thought she REALLY wanted to, it might be way more threatening and less appealing than the safety of knowing it won't go beyond fantasy.

By telling her it was safe because it wasn't going beyond fantasy she could give herself "permission" to immerse herself in the fantasy.

She made it safe for you and you in turn made it safe for her. What does that get you? Some really hot bedroom role play!

But you said that knowing she wasn't interested made it safe for you. Now knowing that you would be okay keeping it in the bedroom could be what made it safe for her to role play. That also means she thinks you DON'T want to make this a reality.

Exploring a fantasy between the two of you can be but asking to explore it in real life....not so much for a lot of people.

You might need to backtrack and tell her how hot that night was and that you are up for talking about how the two of you could explore this in real life together whenever she is interested or ready. And if the answer is still no that is fine with you but you are looking forward to more nights like that in the future!

Thank you for the experienced female perspective. Appreciate it very much.

I think she still may be unconvinced I REALLY only want it to be fantasy as she has expressed doubt about that being the case, especially after seeing how aroused I am from her role play and teasing.

As she has previously made it VERY clear a few months back that she wants no part of it becoming reality, I would not feel comfortable asking her if that has changed just based on the MOST intense orgasm I've witnessed her having after our recent role play.

I may be reading too much into the orgasm. She may be surprised how aroused she was, but I feel likely best to let things simmer for awhile and play it a bit aloof. She doesn't like to be told what to do, so she more likely could be swayed by me not wanting her to go further than fantasy...kind of reverse psychology type of thing.

I'm also really not sure I'd want to go further at this point anyway. It's all still quite new and confusing for me at times having this new fetishistic arousal.

"Exploring a fantasy between the two of you can be but asking to explore it in real life....not so much for a lot of people."

I will stick to that philosophy for now...thanks again.

[BBCfan]

So since the last cuck fantasy play I shared here, I decided to just lay low and let her initiate any role play or teasing.

Life has been very busy and complicated so there has been no kinky play, barely regular sex so I'll leave it alone until things ramp up a bit and the timing seems better.

Interestingly though, I checked her phone today for 1st time in awhile and saw that one of her exes has been inviting her over to "hang out" a few times. He likely found out I've been working out of town for a few weeks and saw an opening.

She thinks he is a bit of a jerk but also has admitted she was always very attracted to him and his dick was one of her favorites to be fucked by. She says he was more of a boytoy than boyfriend, even though they dated off and on for 10 years!

She completely turned him down in text anyway and told him to quit bothering her. I was a bit surprised she didn't tell me but the most overt flirting was just yesterday, so she may have at some point.

It was also interesting that I was not turned on by the idea of her accepting his offer and fucking him...perhaps it's because I also think he's a jerk but I had zero cuckold excitement. Surprised me a bit so maybe I'm not as cuckold wired as I thought?

[BBCfan]

So since the last cuck fantasy play I shared here, I decided to just lay low and let her initiate any role play or teasing.

Life has been very busy and complicated so there has been no kinky play, barely regular sex so I'll leave it alone until things ramp up a bit and the timing seems better.

Interestingly though, I checked her phone today for 1st time in awhile and saw that one of her exes has been inviting her over to "hang out" a few times. He likely found out I've been working out of town for a few weeks and saw an opening.

She thinks he is a bit of a jerk but also has admitted she was always very attracted to him and his dick was one of her favorites to be fucked by. She says he was more of a boytoy than boyfriend, even though they dated off and on for 10 years!

She completely turned him down in text anyway and told him to quit bothering her. I was a bit surprised she didn't tell me but the most overt flirting was just yesterday, so she may have at some point.

It was also interesting that I was not turned on by the idea of her accepting his offer and fucking him...perhaps it's because I also think he's a jerk but I had zero cuckold excitement. Surprised me a bit so maybe I'm not as cuckold wired as I thought?

Haven't been around much. No real updates except my cuckold fantasies are alive and well...thought it was waning but with being away from wife for work at lot has me fantasizing everyday about her taking BBC again.

I know a couple guys at work hit on her a lot...one guy tried to make out with her but she says she shut him down...seems she let the flirting go pretty far though, for it to get to that stage she had to reject a direct advance.

[BBCfan]

So haven't been on here in awhile, have had zero to share.

After this experience I shared being fake cucked a few years back, and wife wanting zero interest in the real thing I kinda shut it down a bit.

These fantasies can become obsessive and frustrating so backed off sharing anything with wife and kept this completely to myself but masturbation fantasy staying strong as ever LOL.

I am presently away on a job contract for a few months, talk to wife most days but not all the time.
I found out today the guy from this story, Jeffrey, is back in Town after 6 years away, and has been contacting wife, trying to hook up with her again.

She has told me she declined . Told him he should know she won't cheat.
He doesn't know I'm out of town for a few months.
I told her if she was interested I'd give her a hall pass, then it would not be cheating but she said she wasn't interested.

I can't help but want to try to talk her into it or at least see if she's even curious or flattered by his advances.

I don't want to irritate her or push her away from the idea completely but can't help but be extremely excited by the opportunity she has.

I know how much she used to love having this guy as a FWB before we met so wonder if she at all thought about it or is turned by the thought of taking his MASSIVE dick again.

Any ideas on how I could subtly approach this would be appreciated.

[PaNic]

Are you doing phone sex while away on work?
You could mention Jeffrey during this, and make it clear you are excited by giving her a hall pass and letting her decide if she wants to follow up on it, tell her how exciting it is just to know she MIGHT...
Make it fun, have a laugh together about it, and enjoy!

[BBCfan]

Are you doing phone sex while away on work?
You could mention Jeffrey during this, and make it clear you are excited by giving her a hall pass and letting her decide if she wants to follow up on it, tell her how exciting it is just to know she MIGHT...
Make it fun, have a laugh together about it, and enjoy!

We don't have phone sex unfortunately...but I love your idea overall.
I've been actually considering a fun ,playful well thought out email or message with a similar type of "sex story" fantasy approach.

I know I'll have to time it well when she's in a receptive mode...

Thanks for your input!!!

[BBCfan]

Are you doing phone sex while away on work?
You could mention Jeffrey during this, and make it clear you are excited by giving her a hall pass and letting her decide if she wants to follow up on it, tell her how exciting it is just to know she MIGHT...
Make it fun, have a laugh together about it, and enjoy!

So I told her I wanted to discuss something earlier today but then chickened out a bit.
This is my 1st draft of the letter I am wanting to send to convey my feeling about this.
Any input is appreciated...

So I've been thinking about us and Our current situation.
  I'm Blessed to have you as a Partner, But even before I left for this work contract Our intimacy had been waning somewhat.

When you told me that Jeffrey had reached out to you when he got back into town, and was interested in rekindling a friends with benefits type interaction, I was of course quite surprised.
I'm flattered that you turned down his requests and explained you're in a relationship and you don't fool around. You had my back and I respect that greatly.

The fact is though, you also said once that if we ever parted ways you would be open to rekindling with him for fun. You know my open minded kink about this, but even beyond that I think this is actually an opportunity for us to grow closer.

Of course if the idea of rekindling with him has 0 appeal to you then please disregard this.
But if there was even a hint of interest in your mind, and a big reason you shut it down is because of our relationship then please consider what I'm about to say.

You already had an ongoing thing with him before we met for many years, So I am not threatened by rekindling with him, nor does it make me at all jealous, The idea of my partner having immense pleasure and then sharing it with me is just one of the hottest things I can think about right now.

The fact I would give you a hall pass for this does not mean I want one in return, for where I am that has NO interest for me...you are my partner and I desire no 1 else. If you feel the same way then of course I understand and I apologize if you find this offensive that I'd even suggest it,  but you know I'm a kinky guy.
To me this is just a wonderful opportunity that we could share something that would help us perhaps stimulate our intimacy with really not much risk

Someone that you're familiar with and when you guys previously hooked up it was always a secret, so it's not like he can't keep a secret about what would happen if it did happen.
I know a big part of this is that you'd be embarrassed to even propose something as you would think it's disrespectful to me or you would think he would lose respect for you.
You could simply propose to him that you mentioned to your partner that he reached out and your partner has been in open relationships and is open minded and said if you want a hall pass, he's OK with it as long as you are respectful about us and keep me in the loop of everything.

If he's respectful of the ground rules and you are at all interested I say go for it.
You know hes got the good dick you love, and he's got good game and you guys have had a great connection and I'm not threatened by it, because honestly I know he's just a fun boy toy kinda guy and I'm not at all worried that I would lose you as a partner.

I honestly think at this point it could enhance our connection and give us a higher realm of trust and understanding that most people don't even have a glimpse of.
Again I mean no disrespect by even suggesting this, it's not like I'm just suggesting you go have an affair with anyone. This is someone that you've had a long history with and you have a comfort with, and you have no interest in a loving partner type relationship with.

So although you told me you have no interest in doing this, I know you did tell me when drunk that you would be open to it if it happened if you were single, and so I'm just saying why wait for that. I would love to share this with you and have a fun Interesting experience that could really be something that we share together and could potentially elevate and rekindle our Intimacy in an exciting way.

Sounds ok???

[Whenwillshe]

It seems quite clear that both of you enjoy the fantasy and are openly communicating.
That is great and your letter looks good to me.

[BBCfan]

It seems quite clear that both of you enjoy the fantasy and are openly communicating.
That is great and your letter looks good to me.

I'm not sure how much she enjoys fantasy as I think she was mostly just doing things in past to placate my interests in the fantasy, but I suppose I'll find out when I send the letter.

Thanks for your feedback!

[subtoall]

I think this is a really great, well written honest letter. My only feedback is I'm wondering if you're holding back your truth just a little. While you talk about your kink, and that you support her doing it, and it will bring you closer together, etc., I fear you're just not quite clearly saying something significant: "It would really turn me on to have you be with him."

I respect the motivation to not appear coercive or controlling, but you can state your truth without risking that.

[PaNic]

That all sounds terribly earnest and over rationalised to me.
It may well be true that this path could lead to you even closer as a couple etc. but I don’t believe such serious aspirations are what’s really motivating you right now or what would motivate your wife!
Tell her how your cock gets so hard when you imagine her pussy getting moist for Jeffrey, let her hear your voice crack like an eager 14 year old trying to seduce his first love, show her your passion! Then laugh with her at how ridiculous the whole kink can seem, be lighthearted at how you are thrown on her mercy and how bad a girl you are begging her to be...

There is of course a time to be earnest, to discuss the ground rules that take care of each other and your marriage but that should be grounding your bubbly playful excitement, not replacing it!

[BBCfan]

That all sounds terribly earnest and over rationalised to me.
It may well be true that this path could lead to you even closer as a couple etc. but I don’t believe such serious aspirations are what’s really motivating you right now or what would motivate your wife!
Tell her how your cock gets so hard when you imagine her pussy getting moist for Jeffrey, let her hear your voice crack like an eager 14 year old trying to seduce his first love, show her your passion! Then laugh with her at how ridiculous the whole kink can seem, be lighthearted at how you are thrown on her mercy and how bad a girl you are begging her to be...

There is of course a time to be earnest, to discuss the ground rules that take care of each other and your marriage but that should be grounding your bubbly playful excitement, not replacing it!

Yeah, you're totally right. I talked to a female friend who suggested I remove my need to know or be in the loop at all, especially initially and let her delve into the idea more on her terms.

Definitely gonna take your advice and hers and talk to her more from the heart or hard on lol...when the timing is right.

[BBCfan]

I think this is a really great, well written honest letter. My only feedback is I'm wondering if you're holding back your truth just a little. While you talk about your kink, and that you support her doing it, and it will bring you closer together, etc., I fear you're just not quite clearly saying something significant: "It would really turn me on to have you be with him."

I respect the motivation to not appear coercive or controlling, but you can state your truth without risking that.

Yeah that's a good point... I will certainly add just how much it does Excite me Without trying to be coercive.

"The thought of you receiving that pleasure from him again is the hugest turn on for me."

Something along those lines... I'm sure I will think of something good to say.

[BBCfan]

I ended up talking to her. Nice open conversation about it, expressing just how excited I was about the idea since hearing he reached out to rekindle things.

I told her if she's even a bit curious or even just wants to go out for dinner with him to catch up she has my blessing.

I also mentioned I didn't need to be kept in the loop or even hear details, just the knowing she was having a great time being pleasured again by his amazing cock and presence was thrilling beyond measure for me.
I also shared I had zero jealousy or insecurity and had no interest in a " hall pass" for myself.

She said she has no interest at all.
Since then we have joked about it and I let her know just knowing he wanted to again had given me a lot of food for fun masturbatory thought about her and him.

She actually shared a pic of a huge black dick with me yesterday and said he sent it to her as a tease.
I knew she was just playing along with me, and it wasn't true, but was still VERY exciting to receive that.

Who knows what could happen. At least she knows I love and support her either way so perhaps it will lessen her aversion to the idea and she could find herself fantasizing about it sometime.
Hope springs eternal