Any advice
Any advice
I have an incredibly sexy wife and I know that I don't please her as she deserves. I have been battling feelings of guilt or my desire to be a cuck, but am 100% sure it is what I want. My wife does not take me seriously when I broach the subject but she hasn't said a definitive "NO". Anybody know how to get over the hump and have her understand that it is all about her pleasure and that I seriously want to be a cuck?? Thanks
Re: Any advice
I'm in a similar place about cucking.
A good friend of mine revealed to me a few weeks ago that he was living this life. I had to give him a hug I was so happy for him.
When I told my wife about this it wasn't well received.
She is interested in playing with others though and hopes to cross that line sometime in the future.
Perhaps just start with the hotwife scenario and if that works slowly introduce the cucking idea.
A good friend of mine revealed to me a few weeks ago that he was living this life. I had to give him a hug I was so happy for him.
When I told my wife about this it wasn't well received.
She is interested in playing with others though and hopes to cross that line sometime in the future.
Perhaps just start with the hotwife scenario and if that works slowly introduce the cucking idea.
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Re: Any advice
You said it yourself: your wife doesn't take you seriously when you bring it up. So, what you need to tell her is that you, in fact, are serious. To do so, I recommend taking the conversation outside the bedroom. Inside the bedroom, she can always play it off as a fantasy. When you talk about it outside of the bedroom, it disconnects the conversation from arousal and trying to get off.
Take her to a nice dinner and encourage her to dress up. When you catch some guy checking her out, point it out to her and tell her how much that excites you. Reinforce that you love her and have no desire for other women but that you want her to find the pleasure she deserves with another man.
Hopefully, that will be enough to erase any doubt of your seriousness.
Be prepared to discuss the practicalities of what her playing would look like in reality. Know your red lines, want-to-haves, and must-haves. Try to get her to discuss hers.
When dinner is done, take her home or to a hotel and have a fun time. Show her how aroused you are by the idea and the conversation you had.
Finally, when you two get up the next day, tell her how great the night was and how much you appreciated the conversation.
Take her to a nice dinner and encourage her to dress up. When you catch some guy checking her out, point it out to her and tell her how much that excites you. Reinforce that you love her and have no desire for other women but that you want her to find the pleasure she deserves with another man.
Hopefully, that will be enough to erase any doubt of your seriousness.
Be prepared to discuss the practicalities of what her playing would look like in reality. Know your red lines, want-to-haves, and must-haves. Try to get her to discuss hers.
When dinner is done, take her home or to a hotel and have a fun time. Show her how aroused you are by the idea and the conversation you had.
Finally, when you two get up the next day, tell her how great the night was and how much you appreciated the conversation.