Life as a prostitute before or after hotwifing

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Re: Life as a prostitute before or after hotwifing

Unread post by Tank Turner » Tue Mar 11, 2025 3:55 pm

LouiseQ wrote:
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Replying to Tank Turner. I suspect most prostitutes don’t have too much control over who uses their services. The majority are not super beautiful and sexy like porn actresses and they have to accept the customers they get. Porn actresses are usually paired with studs, who may not be especially likeable but get the job done. I have read that it’s a myth that porn actresses never enjoy the sex, although I guess it’s very hard to relax when the director is controlling how the action progresses. Incidentally, when I had my liaison with Mike, he told me that there was an abundance of Thai women practising in London - maybe something about Buddhism not being too prescriptive about sex?
When my wife considered experiencing her prostitute fantasy, we did a lot of 'net research. For lack of a more descriptive term, women whom I considered to be elite prostitutes were far above average looking and were in excellent physical condition. Most appeared to be into healthy lifestyles. Many were middle-aged. Judging by their written profiles, they appeared to be educated beyond secondary school. I'm sure some or many were college graduates. They appeared to have the advantage of determining when they'd work and whom they would agree to take as clients.

I could see why women were attracted to that profession. They could earn hundreds of thousands of dollars per year and determine their schedules and clients.

When you find time, do a 'net search of, "Los Angeles female escorts." You'll find many beautiful women in that profession. Many have a $1000+ per hour fee. I don't know what that fee included.

Women who rely on street corners for clients undoubtedly lack discretionary ability. They probably go with men flashing cash.

Years ago, I read an article about Rachel Ryan, a huge porn star from the 1980s. She was exceptionally beautiful. She dated Mickey Rourke, an 1980s "A" List actor. Ryan was quoted in the article that she loved sex, so porn was a natural profession for her. I didn't know who she was until I read that biographical article about her. From memory alone, I believe Ryan was married for a while during her porn career.

I wonder how many porn stars are married.

Women porn stars would appear to have elevated libidos. They might be required to film eight scenes a day with male co-stars they just met at porn studios. I'm sure they go through bottles of lubricant every day.

Porn is entertainment. I'm sure many porn stars enjoy sex while performing their profession. I'm just as sure that as actresses, many act as though they're enjoying sex. I'd guess that by the end of a filming day, they're close to exhausted and want to finish their last scene as quickly as possible.

My wife and I used to watch porn. It was too predictable and obviously poorly scripted. I could probably tell you every act in order in every porn scene without watching it.

Many porn production studios exploited actress. They kept copious amounts of cocaine on hand to ensure actresses were always ready to perform. Many actresses became addicted to cocaine and, tragically, died at young ages.

As an aside, when I was around 13, a friend raided his dad's porn library. We watched many of his dad's porn videos. They were older porn movies. From memory alone, some were European, probably of German production. I do remember women had full bushes. Memories of watching those porn videos stayed with me throughout high school and my initial college years. I was enamored of porn stars' sexual confidence. I used to tell my friends that I was going to marry a porn star. After I married my wife, she asked me about my fantasies. I told her that during my puerile youth, I wanted to marry a porn star. My wife's response was immediate, "You did." She was right. My wife is my private porn star.

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Re: Life as a prostitute before or after hotwifing

Unread post by Very Hot Wife » Wed Mar 12, 2025 12:52 am

Becky has been paid for sex on many occasions, never on the streets. We've written on here but think the posts drop off the end after a while.

She has paid hoteliers for accommodation by having sex with them and she's gone to hotel rooms for prearranged sex with a guy.

We were regulars at a monthly swingers party, two girls were always paid as there was a high proportion on single guys. We were aware of this before we attended our first party and had no problem with it.

One evening the organiser told us that one of the paid girls couldn't make it at the last minute, so Becky stepped in. She was paid quite well, the organiser was very happy and that led to some regular work. She only did what she would have done anyway, having sex with several guys during the evening.

The only difference being that if a guy asked to play with her, she had to agree. As 'normal' guests at the party, she always had to right to say no of course.

But that in itself created an erotic buzz for us, knowing that any guy in the room could have her, regardless of how she felt about them.

If they asked, she HAD to suck their cock, lick their balls, lick their asshole, let them fuck her, cum on her face her even though she didn't fancy them at all. That was her job for the evening. Quite degrading, but equally it actually enhanced our experience.

It made our fantasy real but in a safe environment. They guys who fucked her may have viewed her as a slut who was desperate or any manner of things. We knew the truth and that made it all the more enjoyable.

Luckily, the guys were always vetted by the organisers and were known for their consideration for the ladies so it worked very well. We'd do it again if the situation arose.

All of this was done for the thrill factor, never for financial reasons.

We have utmost respect for women who have to do that job in order to pay the bills.

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Re: Life as a prostitute before or after hotwifing

Unread post by Bryce 69 » Mon Apr 07, 2025 6:03 am

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We had a motel room the place had a bar and restaurant
We were in the bar Hannah was dressed very slutty her 36 DD trying to fall out of her blouse that tied below her breasts miniskirt with her tall leather riding boots on
She went to the room twice with guys
they were pretty quick and it covered our motel , bar bill and fuel for the bike for the 5 day ride
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Re: Life as a prostitute before or after hotwifing

Unread post by safado » Tue Apr 08, 2025 4:41 am

Tank Turner wrote:
Thu Mar 06, 2025 10:45 am
A rhetorical question: how would a husband know whether his wife was a prostitute before he met her? How many coeds put themselves through college while working as prostitutes?

My guess is a husband would never know whether his wife was a prostitute before he met her unless she admitted it or someone told him.

But then again, if a husband is in love with his wife and she's his best friend, her working as a prostitute before he met her would not affect their marriage.

Everyone has skeletons in their closets, some larger than others.
There seem to be a lot of hotwives on these pages and other cuckolding sites that were bar girls in Southeast Asia. You have to be a complete fool not to catch on to a woman's background in those countries, but some are unsuspecting. For those who walk into those relationships with women 30 years younger than them, it's not surprising. Many of these bar girls end up with older divorced guys with cuckold fantasies and it's not too hard for them to take another cock because they have already taken hundreds of cocks. I recommend that guys with strong cuck desires seek out such women because they will agree to cuck you, but take care of their finances and learn when to say no.

I was in a chatroom today and had a chat with an American in his 30s whose wife had an escort fantasy. He said that one time he had a visiting client who asked him about "action," and he referred him to his wife, without telling him she was his wife. The next day he asked the client about the escort and he said he had a great time, fucked the woman several times. But that was a one-time experience.

I posted another thread related to this one asking: what about paying your wife to hotwife or cuck you?

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Re: Life as a prostitute before or after hotwifing

Unread post by LouiseQ » Tue Apr 08, 2025 7:40 am

Relating to the comments about porn actresses. It seems logical that whether or not an actress enjoyed the sex would be very situation and co-star dependant. My husband, who had waay more before marriage experience than me, was in touch with a porn producer (and got invited to some parties as a result). Porn actors tended to have a reputation amongst actresses - some good, some not so. Back in the 80's, a performer called TT Boy was not liked by his co-stars as he was seen as very pushy. Some were seen as neutral - get in, get the job done. Ron Jeremy, one of the most prolific porn actors from this period, has been accused of assault. By contrast, an actor performing as Paul Thomas was extremely popular amongst his co-stars, and was valued for his sexual attractiveness.

Also, I suppose it depends a great deal on the director. In a plot dependent movie, there would be little opportunity for performers to relax and enjoy. In some cases (Alex was present on set for one such movie) the director just said - oral sex, missionary, doggie cowgirl and then just let the performers get on with it, saying he would just let it develop in the edit.

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