Warm Wife

[sandy691196]

Honestly, I think it's super hot! I just wish they could play more often. With life and busy schedules, it seems to be every few weeks. Though when they meet now, their time together is getting longer and longer.

I'm encouraging an additional friend for the new year! Or even a naughty vacation to Vegas!

Hi MrWW..
I have followed your thread and found your and MrsWW's posts fascinating.

After a long long relationship and marriage, things had settled down in your comfortable lives into a set pattern?
You chose this LS to up your thrill and excitement in life. The idea was to import something from outside relationships /men which would enhance the thrill between you 2.

Different couples get their kicks from different things in the LS. They all push boundaries in their own way. Otherwise a new comfortable pattern sets in and things again "settle down"! You (MrWW) have tried to import this new thrill by getting her to diversify her portfolio! It hasnt worked till now. Maybe Vegas can bring in some new thrill. Vegas is kinda tailor made for that.

But as you know Vegas is a finite thing. What happens there stays there.. blah blah..

For your daily dose of kicks back home, perhaps building on what you/she already has with her BF is more pragmatic? In an early post I exchanged with MrsWW, we had agreed that she is much more happy pushing things further with this BF than fishing for FBs.. These things are visceral and cant be argued with or re-engineered.

You have already discovered that cuck dynamics turn you on. Denial and stuff. In some things they are already exclusive - like swallowing and cumming in her pussy bare. MrsWW assured us here that she is solid in your own relationship and cant think of any departure from that reassuring state. I am certain that you 2 have discussed that issue in your privacy and are secure in your marriage as a permanent fixture.

So would you consider encouraging her to "fall for him" romantically? She posted here that she has fantasised about that. One could feel that this subject gives her some anxiety. I was wondering whether for you, this cuck angst can serve as the next level of kick in this experiment with other men and relationships?

Has she had ass fucking with him already with his cumming in her ass? You did mention that she denied you ass play saying its not for you? Have they had their overnight which she was longing for? Have they had their exclusive weekend? How about a mini vacation for the 2 of them? Would you consider playing with the hot and forbidden notion of her being sexually exclusive with him for a month, to begin with? With just hand jobs for the cuck (you)?

Can she stay the weekend at his place (his bed.. her favourite kink of "another man's" bed outside marriage!) and go to work from there on Monday? Have you 2 thought of their being together on a birthday, YOUR marriage anniversary, new year and such special dates?

I was just wondering if discovering more advanced forms of the cuck thing will help you reignite the flame in the LS (something which brought you here in the first place). Being in a secure marriage where the 2 of you have seen everything together for many years, can be a good foundation for your wife safely "falling in love" with her BF and gift you supreme angst and thrills!

Have fun..

[Mrwarmwife]

Wow, that’s quite a post! I will respond more later if she doesn’t. We are indeed having fun. Although I wish I was involved more, I do enjoy the dynamic and want her to continue to have fun with him.

[venus-can99]

Mr and Mrs Warmwife - wishing you a very merry Christmas and a happy 2025 with all your family, friends and lover(s)

[Mrwarmwife]

Honestly, I think it's super hot! I just wish they could play more often. With life and busy schedules, it seems to be every few weeks. Though when they meet now, their time together is getting longer and longer.

I'm encouraging an additional friend for the new year! Or even a naughty vacation to Vegas!

Hi MrWW..
I have followed your thread and found your and MrsWW's posts fascinating.

After a long long relationship and marriage, things had settled down in your comfortable lives into a set pattern?
You chose this LS to up your thrill and excitement in life. The idea was to import something from outside relationships /men which would enhance the thrill between you 2.

Different couples get their kicks from different things in the LS. They all push boundaries in their own way. Otherwise a new comfortable pattern sets in and things again "settle down"! You (MrWW) have tried to import this new thrill by getting her to diversify her portfolio! It hasnt worked till now. Maybe Vegas can bring in some new thrill. Vegas is kinda tailor made for that.

But as you know Vegas is a finite thing. What happens there stays there.. blah blah..

For your daily dose of kicks back home, perhaps building on what you/she already has with her BF is more pragmatic? In an early post I exchanged with MrsWW, we had agreed that she is much more happy pushing things further with this BF than fishing for FBs.. These things are visceral and cant be argued with or re-engineered.

You have already discovered that cuck dynamics turn you on. Denial and stuff. In some things they are already exclusive - like swallowing and cumming in her pussy bare. MrsWW assured us here that she is solid in your own relationship and cant think of any departure from that reassuring state. I am certain that you 2 have discussed that issue in your privacy and are secure in your marriage as a permanent fixture.

So would you consider encouraging her to "fall for him" romantically? She posted here that she has fantasised about that. One could feel that this subject gives her some anxiety. I was wondering whether for you, this cuck angst can serve as the next level of kick in this experiment with other men and relationships?

Has she had ass fucking with him already with his cumming in her ass? You did mention that she denied you ass play saying its not for you? Have they had their overnight which she was longing for? Have they had their exclusive weekend? How about a mini vacation for the 2 of them? Would you consider playing with the hot and forbidden notion of her being sexually exclusive with him for a month, to begin with? With just hand jobs for the cuck (you)?

Can she stay the weekend at his place (his bed.. her favourite kink of "another man's" bed outside marriage!) and go to work from there on Monday? Have you 2 thought of their being together on a birthday, YOUR marriage anniversary, new year and such special dates?

I was just wondering if discovering more advanced forms of the cuck thing will help you reignite the flame in the LS (something which brought you here in the first place). Being in a secure marriage where the 2 of you have seen everything together for many years, can be a good foundation for your wife safely "falling in love" with her BF and gift you supreme angst and thrills!

Have fun..

Sandy, so many things to say regarding your post and apologize for the delay. I'm sure you understand with this time of year.

So, she is very obsessed with him. She thinks about him often, talks about him, and wishes she could see him much more often. That said, we are from different worlds, so he would never get her heart. I would love her to get to see him even more and falling for him. Very hot!

She has not given him her ass, though if he tries we both know she will let him...she would submit...though not sure he yet appreciates that. And she is very clear he can cum wherever he wants, which includes her ass if he ever tries.

I thought she would chime in on the overnight thing. They have done it a few times. We like it though it doesn't allow the reclaiming I crave. Funny how exhausting , since I hardly sleep while she is away. I trust him and no worries for safety, he's really a great guy, but the angst, oh the angst when she is gone for the night!

[sandy691196]

If you scroll up, she told me that her not going the whole distance with him and falling in love 'n all is to ensure that her primary relationship with you is not jeopardized..
If you are OK with her falling for him and doing the whole BF-GF thing properly then that ain't jeopardizing your marriage.. right?

She and he being from different worlds need not be an impediment to her giving her heart.. This ain't about finding a substitute for you.. not about replacing her husband. In fact being from different worlds is kinda safe here.. if you know what i mean?

[Mrwarmwife]

If you scroll up, she told me that her not going the whole distance with him and falling in love 'n all is to ensure that her primary relationship with you is not jeopardized..
If you are OK with her falling for him and doing the whole BF-GF thing properly then that ain't jeopardizing your marriage.. right?

She and he being from different worlds need not be an impediment to her giving her heart.. This ain't about finding a substitute for you.. not about replacing her husband. On fact being from different worlds is kinda safe here.. if you know what i mean?

Oh, I'm very much ok with their relationship and where ever she decides to take it, though the whole BF-GF thing is different for everyone. She always calls him her BF already. They just don't have a traditional BF-GF thing due to everyone's busy life. We would draw the line at actually openly dating with our existing circle.

[sandy691196]

If you scroll up, she told me that her not going the whole distance with him and falling in love 'n all is to ensure that her primary relationship with you is not jeopardized..
If you are OK with her falling for him and doing the whole BF-GF thing properly then that ain't jeopardizing your marriage.. right?

She and he being from different worlds need not be an impediment to her giving her heart.. This ain't about finding a substitute for you.. not about replacing her husband. On fact being from different worlds is kinda safe here.. if you know what i mean?

Oh, I'm very much ok with their relationship and where ever she decides to take it, though the whole BF-GF thing is different for everyone. She always calls him her BF already. They just don't have a traditional BF-GF thing due to everyone's busy life. We would draw the line at actually openly dating with our existing circle.

Open dating is NOT an option in your situation. I was talking of acknowledgement of love.. Of going for weekends- maybe small vacations?

[Mrwarmwife]

If you scroll up, she told me that her not going the whole distance with him and falling in love 'n all is to ensure that her primary relationship with you is not jeopardized..
If you are OK with her falling for him and doing the whole BF-GF thing properly then that ain't jeopardizing your marriage.. right?

She and he being from different worlds need not be an impediment to her giving her heart.. This ain't about finding a substitute for you.. not about replacing her husband. On fact being from different worlds is kinda safe here.. if you know what i mean?

Oh, I'm very much ok with their relationship and where ever she decides to take it, though the whole BF-GF thing is different for everyone. She always calls him her BF already. They just don't have a traditional BF-GF thing due to everyone's busy life. We would draw the line at actually openly dating with our existing circle.

Open dating is NOT an option in your situation. I was talking of acknowledgement of love.. Of going for weekends- maybe small vacations?

She would definitely welcome the small vacations! A very hot fantasy for her and of course I get to come to as her cover story. I'm all for it!

[sandy691196]

but if you go.. you stay in a separate room or even a different hotel..

[Mrwarmwife]

Happy New Year! I have a feeling 2025 will be a hot one!

Still trying to decide if we wait for her BF to be her first for the year. My vote is for a new friend!

[54321]

A Happy and Thrilling New Year to you both!

54321

[Long Lurker 34]

If you scroll up, she told me that her not going the whole distance with him and falling in love 'n all is to ensure that her primary relationship with you is not jeopardized..
If you are OK with her falling for him and doing the whole BF-GF thing properly then that ain't jeopardizing your marriage.. right?

She and he being from different worlds need not be an impediment to her giving her heart.. This ain't about finding a substitute for you.. not about replacing her husband. On fact being from different worlds is kinda safe here.. if you know what i mean?

Oh, I'm very much ok with their relationship and where ever she decides to take it, though the whole BF-GF thing is different for everyone. She always calls him her BF already. They just don't have a traditional BF-GF thing due to everyone's busy life. We would draw the line at actually openly dating with our existing circle.

MrWW
- What about openly dating beyond your existing circle?

[Mrwarmwife]

If you scroll up, she told me that her not going the whole distance with him and falling in love 'n all is to ensure that her primary relationship with you is not jeopardized..
If you are OK with her falling for him and doing the whole BF-GF thing properly then that ain't jeopardizing your marriage.. right?

She and he being from different worlds need not be an impediment to her giving her heart.. This ain't about finding a substitute for you.. not about replacing her husband. On fact being from different worlds is kinda safe here.. if you know what i mean?

Oh, I'm very much ok with their relationship and where ever she decides to take it, though the whole BF-GF thing is different for everyone. She always calls him her BF already. They just don't have a traditional BF-GF thing due to everyone's busy life. We would draw the line at actually openly dating with our existing circle.

MrWW
- What about openly dating beyond your existing circle?

Hmmmm, it is a valid question. We both know a fair amount of people in our community so it would make us nervous for her to openly date. That said, she dreams of going on a vacation with him for that reason. And wants me to come too...have my own room...in case we bump into someone we know and then we would have a solid story. Very hot idea for both of us!

[sandy691196]

Best do it while you can! Tomorrows are sometimes cruel!

[Long Lurker 34]

If you scroll up, she told me that her not going the whole distance with him and falling in love 'n all is to ensure that her primary relationship with you is not jeopardized..
If you are OK with her falling for him and doing the whole BF-GF thing properly then that ain't jeopardizing your marriage.. right?

She and he being from different worlds need not be an impediment to her giving her heart.. This ain't about finding a substitute for you.. not about replacing her husband. On fact being from different worlds is kinda safe here.. if you know what i mean?

Oh, I'm very much ok with their relationship and where ever she decides to take it, though the whole BF-GF thing is different for everyone. She always calls him her BF already. They just don't have a traditional BF-GF thing due to everyone's busy life. We would draw the line at actually openly dating with our existing circle.

MrWW
- What about openly dating beyond your existing circle?

Hmmmm, it is a valid question. We both know a fair amount of people in our community so it would make us nervous for her to openly date. That said, she dreams of going on a vacation with him for that reason. And wants me to come too...have my own room...in case we bump into someone we know and then we would have a solid story. Very hot idea for both of us!

MrWW
- Reading between the lines a bit, you are in a smaller centre or rural area?
- Is there a larger city within a reasonable distance they could take advantage over for public dates?

[mrswarmwife]

I’m just catching up here! The holidays consume my time and energy but I’m ready to fill you all in on how my boyfriend has been filling me up
But first I’ll address some of the previous posts. I do wonder if what I feel for him is some kind of love but I’m not involved in his life in any other way. So there’s a lot that’s missing (and that’s intentional because I have a full life and marriage!) And if it is love on some level, that doesn’t scare me. And I don’t think it scares MrWW either. For me it just adds to this experience of feeling really alive. My husband knew going into this LS that I’m a “feelings” girl. I think we navigate this well and I’m very open about when I’m thinking about my bf or wishing I could call him or see him. MrWW is so gracious and understanding. When we entered the LS, it was unexpected that I would be seeing one man for so long, but I’m really happy with it for now.

[mrswarmwife]

As for openly dating, I will never risk anyone knowing that I’m seeing other men. So this LS will always be very discreet for us. Sure, if I’m in a place far from home would I be more public in the fun I’m having? Absolutely.

[mrswarmwife]

My husband shared that I’ve had several overnights with my bf which I really love. I mostly like that after having great sex, we get to cuddle up under the covers and go to sleep. That’s another level of intimacy in my opinion. One that I am thrilled about getting to experience.
Most recently, I saw him two nights in a row, and spent the night together both nights. The latest visit began with him sitting on the couch looking gorgeous in jeans and a t-shirt. I was beside him, his hand on my knee, my hand rubbing the back of his neck. I took another sip of my drink and kissed him on the lips, then his neck (I fucking love this man’s neck) and I slowly worked my way down to his zipper. I told him to relax and enjoy. He gave me that sexy smile that says I’ll be getting fucked soon. So of course I wanted to earn my reward. I took out his cock that was already so hard and started teasing him with my tongue before taking him in my mouth as far as I could. His hands in my hair, the sounds of his pleasure and the occasional eye contact. All. So. Hot. My pussy was aching for him at this point and I was still completely dressed. I leaned up and took off his shirt so that I could kiss and touch him all over before returning to his cock, which was throbbing now. He began to tug on my top to reveal a shoulder and his hands were touching my face as I sucked his cock. He was ready to undress me….

[mrswarmwife]

We stood up, he pulled his jeans the rest of the way off, and undressed me down to my bra and panties. He ordered me to lay down on the bed and I obeyed. I love the demands he makes of me. It turns me on beyond belief. He stood at the edge of the bed, grabbed my legs and pulled my panties off then told me to spread my legs for him. He put his cock in my wet pussy and fucked me so hard. I swear this man’s cock hits me in places I didn’t know I had. He took off my bra and flipped me over, grabbed my hips and pulled me toward him. He started to fuck me again this time making me orgasm. Which in my case only makes me want more. He laid down and I straddled him backwards, I rode his cock while he gently played with my ass. This combination of sensations was one for the record books. Eventually he put me under him, all of his muscles taut as he held himself over me and pounded me until he filled me with his cum. This was round one. We rested and kissed and talked before going at it again until sleep overcame us. Exhausted and totally satisfied.

[mrswarmwife]

MrWW did get a video that night…of his adoring wife sucking another man’s cock. So although he’s not there to see it in person, I do take the time to do something nice for him!

[sandy691196]

MrsWW thanks for the lyrical descriptions!

Not being involved in his day to day life doesn't take away from your love for him. In fact it makes it sweeter..

I am remembering a famous poet's (not in English) lines on how daily chores pollute the pristine love and how a couple in a non conventional relationship can feel that pure love without interference from the mundane deliverables of routine life.

When I write this, I know I yank the chains to MrWW's heart! I know how he digs this angst! Knowing that his wife is now just his wife and mom of his kids and the empress of his household.
While her real primary mate is another man, who has her heart and who rules her feminine self!

How hot is that MrWW?

[mrswarmwife]

Sandy691196, I agree that “a couple in a non conventional relationship can feel that pure love without interference from the mundane deliverables of routine life.”

I’ve said that same thing to MrWW before. I’m really lucky I get to feel things like that without the guilt of betrayal.

[sandy691196]

Mrs WW
Has the L word been exchanged?

[isinlarsa]

My husband shared that I’ve had several overnights with my bf which I really love. I mostly like that after having great sex, we get to cuddle up under the covers and go to sleep. That’s another level of intimacy in my opinion. One that I am thrilled about getting to experience.
Most recently, I saw him two nights in a row, and spent the night together both nights. The latest visit began with him sitting on the couch looking gorgeous in jeans and a t-shirt. I was beside him, his hand on my knee, my hand rubbing the back of his neck. I took another sip of my drink and kissed him on the lips, then his neck (I fucking love this man’s neck) and I slowly worked my way down to his zipper. I told him to relax and enjoy. He gave me that sexy smile that says I’ll be getting fucked soon. So of course I wanted to earn my reward. I took out his cock that was already so hard and started teasing him with my tongue before taking him in my mouth as far as I could. His hands in my hair, the sounds of his pleasure and the occasional eye contact. All. So. Hot. My pussy was aching for him at this point and I was still completely dressed. I leaned up and took off his shirt so that I could kiss and touch him all over before returning to his cock, which was throbbing now. He began to tug on my top to reveal a shoulder and his hands were touching my face as I sucked his cock. He was ready to undress me….

I think it would have been very sexy if you had undressed him completely, while you stayed completely dressed, and spent some time in that state before moving on the the main event.

[sandy691196]

Sandy691196, I agree that “a couple in a non conventional relationship can feel that pure love without interference from the mundane deliverables of routine life.”

I’ve said that same thing to MrWW before. I’m really lucky I get to feel things like that without the guilt of betrayal.

Talking of love in unconventional relationships..

I remember the interesting tale of Hester Prynne, the main protagonist in Nathaniel Hawthorne's "The Scarlet Letter".. Remember?

The "Adulteress" in puritan New England.. who had to wear the red alphabet "A" on her dress due to her illicit relationship with a church minister, whose child she bore. When her husband conducted the inquisition to find out the identity of her lover, she never budged, confident in her heart that their liaison was consecrated by "love".

Interestingly, I read in some critique of the novel that her husband's inquisition was a bigger sin than her "adultery". Since he sought to pry into the "secrets of her heart"!

So MrsWW, what you feel in the arms of your BF/lover may be something that is ONLY for YOU to know! We should be at peace with that!
Amen!